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About Me

Let me introduce myself. I teach psychology at Regent University in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Since 1998 I have been part of the core faculty in the Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology and have served as the founding director of the Institute for the Study of Sexual Identity since 2004. As for counseling services, I have a private practice in the Virginia Beach area, providing individual, couples, family, and group counseling. ISSI 2013-14 YAR 2

I graduated from Calvin College with degrees in philosophy and art and a minor in psychology. In art my focus was lithography, pen and ink drawing, and watercolor painting. I then went to Wheaton College and earned a master’s degree in theology and a doctorate in clinical psychology.

I’ve had the opportunity to collaborate with several fine scholars over the past few years, leading to books such as Ex-Gays? A Longitudinal Study of Religiously-Mediated Change in Sexual Orientation (with Stan Jones) and Modern Psychopathologies: A Comprehensive Christian Appraisal (with Rich Butman and Barrett McRay). I also completed two projects on couples and families with Jim Sells: Family Therapies: A Comprehensive Christian Appraisal and Counseling Couples in Conflict: A Relational Restoration Model.

My two most recent solo projects are Homosexuality and the Christian: A Guide for Parents, Pastors and Friends and Understanding Sexual Identity: A Resource for Youth Ministry. This second one for youth pastors was just released the fall of 2013 in conjunction with speaking engagements at the National Youth Workers Convention with Youth Specialties, Inc.

I am currently working on a book on transgender issues and gender dysphoria with the working title, Understanding Gender Dysphoria: Navigating Transgender Issues in a Changing Culture.

I’m glad you came across this web site. The focus here is integration, which involves a meaningful dialogue between psychology and Christianity.

 

20 responses to “About Me

  1. Michael E. Strohm

    November 15, 2008 at 3:07 pm

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and work.

    U.S. Army Family Life Chaplain Training Program, Theological Integration, The Person of the Pastoral Counselor, Biblical Mandates and Theory of Change, Soldier and Family Ministries

     
  2. AM

    April 5, 2009 at 3:31 pm

    I didn’t find an email contact, but I would like to discuss intersexism with you. There are many of us born intersexed (in various ways). The church has ignored us at worst and dismissed us as eunuchs at best. We are critical to study because we are the link between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

    The issue of human sexuality/gender is forever opened to discussion at this point in history. I have been pleading with people to not let this bridge go unexplored. Not to speak evolutionarily, but we (the intersexed) truly are the missing link.

    Thank you

    AM

     
  3. Ed Riddick

    May 18, 2009 at 5:36 pm

    Hi Mark,
    I am an Evangelical Free Church pastor – Oakbrook EvFree in Oshkosh, WI.
    I just graduated from TEDS with an MACM degree.
    I attended your presentation at TEDS this year. You mentioned you had an extensive Informed Consent form. As I recall you were willing to share your Informed Consent form. May I have a copy? Thanks for any help you can provide.

    Sincerely Yours in Christ,
    Ed Riddick, ThM, MACM
    Pastor

     
  4. SallyParadise

    June 19, 2010 at 11:54 am

    Hi, I didn’t find an e-mail link. I am a Christian gender-dysphoric female. I made the change several years ago and I am very happy I did. I am a Bible believing Christian who attends church weekly. I am also a political/social conservative. I do not endorse homosexuality or the LGBT community. I was involved in many years of ‘Christian’ therapy, none of which proved helpful except to solidfy my need to make the change.

    http://sallyparadise.wordpress.com

     
  5. Mark

    June 19, 2010 at 6:58 pm

    I’ll send you an email if you wish to correspond.

     
  6. Sandra Stewart

    October 22, 2010 at 11:28 am

    Invitation to the Transgender Religious Leaders Summit

     
  7. Kevin Zimmerman

    September 9, 2011 at 9:53 pm

    Hello Mark,

    I am researching commitment in mixed-orientation relationships. Could you please contact me regarding how best to go about recruitment?

    Thank you!

    Kevin Zimmerman
    kevinz@iastate.edu

     
  8. Kurt

    March 21, 2012 at 9:39 am

    Mark,

    I read an 8-10 page article you wrote about 4-5 years ago written for parents and youth workers. Where can I find that or get a copy?

    Kurt Boyland
    Abilene, Texas

     
  9. Mark

    April 6, 2012 at 4:10 pm

    Kurt,
    Thanks for stopping by. I’m not sure. I have a couple of pamphlets I’ve written – one is for parents; the other is for youth workers (still others for spouses, student development staff, etc.). They are pamphlets that are available through the Institute for the Study of Sexual Identity, if you want to check out that web site: http://www.sexualidentityinstitute.org.
    Mark

     
  10. Vinnie

    May 1, 2012 at 11:03 pm

    Mark, you did a presentation with Sells at AACC in September on couples in conflict. I listened to the presentation and appreciated it. I bought the book as well, but I haven’t quite gotten down everything you said. Is there a powerpoint or word doucment on what your presented at AACC?

     
    • Mark

      May 2, 2012 at 6:17 am

      I’ll email Jim and cc you. He has the latest version, I believe.

       
  11. Marcus Kilian, MDiv, PsyD, LP

    August 28, 2012 at 10:31 pm

    Hi Mark,
    Do you have some info on “straight men having sex with males”? I came across a study in New York published by Annals of internal Medicine (2006), but would appreciate more clinical material. I am working with sexually addicted men and women in my practice. Thanks and nice to see your website.

     
  12. David W

    February 27, 2013 at 4:19 pm

    http://www.sexualidentityinstitute.org/resources/media

    Dr. Yarhouse –
    You have a set of Q&A videos on the SII site (hosted on YouTube), I watched them earlier in the year but they are now marked private. We are prepping for you to speak this fall, and the question is relevant for our potential attendees.

    The Question: Can You Be Gay and Christian?

    – thanks

     
    • Mark

      February 28, 2013 at 11:48 am

      I don’t know where they went either. I wonder if AACC took them down. They were done for a series that was being developed by AACC, and they were not supposed to be on YouTube. You could contact AACC if you want a copy. I don’t have one. I did recently redo some of those questions to post in their place. I don’t think I did that question, though.

       
  13. David W

    February 28, 2013 at 6:20 pm

    Thank you for the quick response. I’ll contact AACC.

    Meanwhile, is there a link to the new videos you can send me? Also, there are some pamphlets on the site too, one for youth workers, etc. Is it possible to get digital copies of those? We are developing FAQ’s and trying to anticipate what might be asked.

    David
    YS

     
  14. Nathan

    March 16, 2013 at 4:51 pm

    Hi Mark,
    I really appreciate this website. I am a student at a Christian college and last November I recognized the need to address my sexuality, an issue that I had been ignoring for a long time. Unfortunately, I am studying abroad this semester and have nobody to talk to about the process of coming to terms with my sexual identity. I would greatly appreciate some correspondence with you as I try to figure things out. Your site is one of the few I have found that makes sense and has all of the words spelled correctly, so I figured you would be my best bet. Please shoot me an email when you get a chance.

     
  15. Josh Spurlock

    June 28, 2013 at 10:21 pm

    You are a rock star Mark! Thank you for your faithfulness to what God has called you to. The church is stronger, better informed, and better equipped thanks to you. Keep up the good work :-)

    Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC
    Director of The Relationship Center

    http://JoshSpurlock.com/

     
  16. Doug Dittmer

    March 6, 2014 at 12:39 am

    Thanks for your work with MOMs. I’ve been mentoring gay/bi married men for 20 years. In 2011 I co-authored Over the Cliff: Gay Husbands in Straight Marriages. As a consequence, I get requests for assistance. The most desperate of these come from those who are struggling with the dissonance created between their sexual identity and conservative religious belief systems. I hear the same fears expressed by gay Evangelical Christians, Hasidic Jews, and Muslims. In varying degrees, these gay young people are pressured and forced into heterosexual marriages by their family and culture. They may even be able to make it work for a few years. However, the overwhelming majority of the husbands reach their mid 40s and are no longer able to live an inauthentic existence. The dilemma they face is a no-win situation. Do they continue lying about their sexuality or come out and be honest about it? If they continue the lie, the wife will likely believe that she is the cause of the sexual problems in the relationship e.g. getting wrinkles, putting on weight, not as sexy as she was etc. On the other hand, if he comes out, the marriage will probably end and there will be collateral damage to his wife and children. The question becomes: Which course of action will do the least amount of damage and/or put the family on the path to healing.

     
  17. coagec

    July 17, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    I’m glad to have found this blog. As a physician who is also gay and evangelical, I have much interest in the psychological research pertaining to sexuality. I just started my own blog called Confessions of a Gay Evangelical Christian coagec.wordpress.com, where I hope to share my story as a man who adheres to orthodox teachings regarding sexuality and discuss various issues pertaining to homosexuality including medical and psychological matters.

     
  18. KIm Batteau

    September 8, 2014 at 4:19 pm

    Dear Mark, I came upon your website via the information for the coming conference to be held at Trinity School of Ministry in October. I am a retired minister of the Reformed Churches of The Netherlands (Liberated) (Gereformeerde Kerken (vrijgemaakt)). We in the orthodox Christian community are facing the challenge of the gay propaganda around us to the effect that homosexual practice is OK. I believe we should show compassion to all human beings, including the deeply same-sex attracted (“homophiles”), and yet at the same time seek to uphold God’s guidelines in Scripture regarding sexuality, which will lead to a celibate life-style for homophile believers. This is of course nothing new in church history, but needs special wisdom and sensitivity in our age. I hope you agree with me!

     

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